What are the secrets for Happy married life ?

Marriage is the ultimate bond between two partners. You made a vow to love one another for better or for worse, but sometimes things become strained. Perhaps you had a bad fight, you feel yourselves drifting apart, or you may have simply reached a point where you realize you need to improve the relationship. Relationships require work and commitment to keep your love for one another strong, and marriage is no exception. With a little effort, some understanding, and a bit of patience.

Let us explore further from three perspectives:

  • Basic Approach
  • Doctor/Expert advice
  • Using TV Serial Show

Basic Approach

  1. Make relationship is a top priority

It is incredibly important that you make the relationship a priority in order to maintain a healthy relationship. Most couples will put endless amounts of time and energy into the relationship in the early stages, usually the first couple of years. The relationship is exciting and fulfilling and there is a lot of thought put into how to keep it healthy.

Starting today think of how you can make your relationship a priority. Look for small ways to let your partner know you are thinking of them.

  1. Communication is Important

Communication, Communication, Communication! This is the big word in counselling. And it should be. Husbands and wives need to talk to each other. It is better to deal with problems early and honestly than to let them pile up until an explosion occurs.

  1. Show Appreciation

Show appreciation for what your spouse does for the family. Never make your partner feel that he/she is not doing good enough for the family or that you are not satisfied with his/her efforts. Show affection for your mate. Be kind, gentle, and loving.

Doctor/Expert Advice 

As per Doctor Anuj (MD, FESC  Echo- Phil. (USA) we need to work on this formula – “FAP “ to have a successful marriage life. FAP stands for Finance, Avoid and Parental

  • F (Finance) – Give Finance Independence to your wife.
  • A (Avoid) – Please avoid argumentation
  • P (Parental) – Accept her/his parents as yours parents.


Please watch this 5 minutes video to understand FAP formula – 3 Secrets for Happy married life , For today, tomorrow & forever.

At the end Doctor quote says

Family that prays/meditate together Always stays together.

 Using TV Hindi Serial Show


There are five episodes aired about the couple arguments. This is must watch for any Indian married couple to understand how they unknowingly trapped into arguments without any valid logic or point.

Steps 1 – How the argument started between Husband Wife?

Steps 2 – Now argument is on the peak. They do not want to see each other

Steps 3 – How they resolve the argument?

As shown in the Bollywood movies – there is always a Happy Ending. I would advise to watch all the five episodes.

To sum up – Good marriages require patience, kindness, humility, sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and hard work. Following these principles should help any marriage to improve. The essence of them all can be summed up in one sentence:

Always treat your spouse the way you would like to be treated.

If you follow this rule, your marriage will have a much greater chance for success.

Thanks for reading and please share your views.


Sources – Dr Anuj,ImagesBazaar and SonyTV


6 thoughts on “What are the secrets for Happy married life ?

  1. Very important questions ,thanks for sharing basics but powerful tips.I enjoyed the videos link mentioned. Look forward for more articles related to this topic.

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